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| Characteristics And How To Handle Smart People |
Likes to criticize someone, does not admit ignorance, says in complicated language. It is a characteristic of a smart-ass person, it can be that people who think they are smart turn out to be lowly and people who you think are stupid are actually people who are wise .
When you make friends with other people, you will undoubtedly have the type of friend who pretends to know, who pretends to be intelligent, who pretends to be proficient, even though in reality that person is not very knowledgeable, educated, or even reliable.
They are only powerful creatures who have imperfect, limited brain capacities. But those who pretend to be smart try to hide their stupidity by pretending to be educated, instead of being real intellectuals.
It must be annoying to have friends like this, whether it's in a social environment or in cyberspace, maybe you've been criticized by these smart-ass people. However, what he criticized turned out to be of no quality, and they were only seeking attention so that many would say he was 'smart' and flattered.
It could be that the person you consider educated turns out to be someone who isn't that smart or doesn't know anything, or the person you consider retarded is actually smarter than you thought.
Talk a lot just to receive a compliment
This self-educated person talks a lot, even on trivial matters. But this person's aim was not to announce someone or inform someone, but his intention was to receive pride from others. That he is a smart, cool, smart person, knows everything.
Often belittles people (especially the people around him)
What that person does he always underestimates, he doesn't like it. In fact, he always criticizes the person because he is not happy with what the person is doing so that the person 'falls'. After that, this person who pretends to know feels victorious because he has tried to bring down someone he underestimated.
However, this person who knows this will be annoyed when the person he is trying to bring down does not give in and continues to do that because he feels that this is a good thing and only these self-educated people think what that person is doing is bad. The point is when someone underestimates you, you don't need to care, just keep going if you believe the steps you are taking are right.
Looks really busy
Those who 'know-it-all' try to let people know that they are busy. In order not to be seen by people, he has nothing to do and looks like he is studying something. Even though the reality is not so, they are just idle and doing things that are useless.
Don't want to hear what people say (don't want to look stupid)
People who are self-righteous feel inferior when someone tries to gossip or patronize them. In fact, he will try to divert the conversation so that they don't look like retarded people who are being given information that he thinks he has mastered on the issue, even though in fact he is not.
Not wanting to admit that he did not know
It's just a person who knows or pretends to be educated. Yes, of course they don't want to look stupid in the eyes of other people, and he doesn't want to admit that he doesn't know something.
Conversely, if this person is educated, then he does not mind if given information, because of this information that can lead him to true intelligence.
Has no establishment and often plagiarizes others
When this self-sufficient person gets the words of someone he thinks is cool, then he usually falsifies those words. But what's worse, he admits that these words are genuine from him, even though they are the words of other people he has ever met.
In simple language, this person claims to have a work that actually this work is not the result of himself. Or people who are pretentious usually plagiarize something without admitting that they are imitating.
Speak in complicated language to look wise
People who pretend to be smart, speak in complicated and convoluted language even though the material he is conveying is not that complicated, their goal is to say something like this so that people who hear them see that the person is smart and right.
Even though people who are smart to help him will try to say in a language that is easy to recognize even though the material presented is complicated, their goal is to speak like that so that people who hear it can easily digest the clarification.
Likes to criticize people's work, even though he doesn't have any work
People who are self-righteous like to criticize and find fault with other people's work. Their purpose in criticizing is not to make the work right, but to bring down the creator of the work and to hurt the creator of the work.
In fact, this person who pretends to be an expert does not have works, or his work is not as great as what he has criticized. One of the ways to let other people see that he has good work, this smart-ass person commits theft of works by imposing jewelery that the work is made by himself.
There are people who pretend to be smart in front of you, but confused about how you should act? here's the answer.
Ignore those who are pretentious
There's no need to care about something that's not important, because that's just wasting your time, rather than caring about those who actually make them pretend to be more intelligent. Better you shut up and avoid them.
Don't give too much praise
If you give excessive pride to people who are pretentious, they will become even more, the reason is that their goal is to be self-knowledgeable, because they want to get compliments. Just give it a little pride so they won't be too overproud (too happy).
This small praise aims to make people who pretend to be satisfied with what he is talking about.
Be a really knowledgeable person
Deepen your knowledge, because when you face people who pretend to know. You are bound to win the debate, because you know better than they do. Even though they did many things so that what he said was true, still the one who won was the one who was right.
Rebuke slowly
Smart people don't get reprimanded, so you have to reprimand them properly so they can take it.
Examples of admonition not suggested: What kind of work is this? plagiarism from people just be proud.
An example of a good admonition: Your work is already good, but try not to follow other people's work, because who knows you might be more graceful. But your work is really cool, especially if you have your own characteristics.
Indeed, after being reprimanded, sometimes there are those who are angry, or still don't get the reprimand. But if this is done continuously and slowly, maybe people who don't overdose on this smart-ass disease can develop even better.
Just pretend you know
Maybe you are confused too, want to reprimand but he is afraid to get angry, want to ignore even more angry, because he feels unappreciated. One way is that you can pretend you understand what this smartass is saying. So that the mission of intelligent people feels it has been a success, and the debate will end.
If you fall into this classification, let's improve your character. Because there are many people who don't like people who pretend to be smart or know something, if you really don't know, just admit that you don't know.