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| Characteristics of Lesbian Women You Need to Know |
Lesbian is a sexual disorder that likes the same sex, in this case, namely women. Many things can cause why a woman has this kind of sexual orientation, starting from shock, the environment, and even the impact of association. Currently, the progress of lesbians is increasing, not only in other countries but also in Indonesia.
Of course this makes you confused about this situation. Moreover, it is very difficult to recognize women who suffer from sexual disorders like this in the general environment. For this reason, it is important for us to know the characteristics of lesbian women who may be around us. So here are some characteristics of lesbians that you need to know.
1. Different Fashion Tastes
One of the characteristics of lesbians that is easily visible is their fashion style which is different when compared to most women. Lesbians usually have quite quirky styles and fashion tastes. For example, in hairstyles, generally hairstyles that are quite popular among lesbians are short military-style hair, undercut styles, or other short hair sections that are given a lot of gel.
Although not all women who have this haircut are lesbians, about 80% are lesbians. This is because of her desire to act tomboyish and like the style of clothing like men.
But now lesbians are not only synonymous with a tomboyish appearance like men, even feminine women can also be lesbians. There are two types of lesbians, namely butchy and femme. If Butchy plays the role of a man (a woman with a passionate and straightforward nature), then femme is likened to the woman.
2. Different Gestures
Not only in the selection of fashion styles, the movements of lesbian women will be opposite than other normal women. For example, when they walk, their walking style is similar to that of a man. Sometimes they will bend down to hide their pancakes, their footsteps are so fast, their smiles are quite flirtatious, they even like to make eye contact. In addition, when speaking with his main interlocutor, he will try to sit too tight and make movements that are not common.
3. Cold and Indifferent To Men
Indeed, there are several types of women who have a cold and cold attitude towards men, especially those they don't really know. However, this indifferent and indifferent behavior is the opposite of what is shown by lesbian women. Lesbians have a completely cold-blooded and aloof attitude towards men, as if showing disinterest. Even that attitude showed the hatred in his heart. This is because the average lesbian has a bad past with men so that the bitter memory is still stored and makes them experience sexual orientation disorders.
4. Has a fairly deep affinity with female friends
Another characteristic that can be seen is when you have a deep enough closeness with other female friends. Although it is common sense for women to be friends with other women, there are often some things that show impropriety. For example, doing things that are more like touching certain body parts of the female friend or other unusual things. If this is similar then it is determined that the woman is a lesbian.
5. Lifestyle
Some women who are lesbians may have friendly and innocent characters, but some of them are sociable and love to go out in groups. In addition, there are also lesbian women who have a hedonic lifestyle, so they are happy to spend money to meet their needs. Apart from that, they are also happy about things related to lesbians, such as film personalities, musicians, lesbian cities, and others.
6. Paying too much attention to female friends
Another feature that can be easily seen is the attitude and attention that is too much for other female friends. Try to pay attention to how to observe female friends. If the goodness he has is too excessive and not like most friends, then you should suspect him. Usually women who are lesbians sometimes offer something that is really something special when viewed from its abilities.
7. It's nice to stare at women for a long time
If in general women often look at men for a long time, it is different from women who are lesbians. Lesbian women sometimes glance even to stare at other women for a long time. In fact, this attitude was not only done to female friends he knew, even women who passed him though. This is due to the feeling of liking the same sex.
8. Don't Feel Strange When Kissing Other Women
Pay attention to her movements in social life, if the woman feels normal when hugging and even kissing other women in public, then this could be a characteristic if the woman has a sexual orientation disorder. However, don't be too quick to conclude, you need a deeper examination in this regard.
9. Possessive If Someone Else Approaches His Girlfriend
This may be carried out for lesbian women who act as butchy, but does not imply the possibility that femme will also act like that. Lesbian women sometimes act possessive when their closest female friends are approached by other people. This is not because you are afraid if you can't play together anymore, but because you are afraid of losing you in his life. Especially if he is already very smitten with you.
10. Enjoys Talking About Other Women
If a woman never talks about performers, musicians or other men in her life and only talks about her favorite women then you definitely need to be suspicious of her. In fact, the talk is not about achievements or usual things, but rather about the woman's physique. This might indicate that the woman is a lesbian.
11. The conversation always goes to matters regarding same-sex enthusiasts
Try to observe what topics are often discussed by women, certainly not far from make-up, fashion, and the like. But for lesbian women, the topic of conversation that is often carried out is not much related to lesbians or same-sex enthusiasts. The style of speech also tends to be more pro towards gender equality. In addition, when talking, they will move a lot and tend to be expressive when talking about these things.
12. Looks Affectionate Like a Couple in General
If you meet a female partner who clearly offers intimacy even in public, this is definitely a question in your head. Lesbi women will not hesitate to offer their intimacy like other normal couples in general. For example, physical contact, such as hugging, embracing, caressing, even kissing can be done even in a public place.
13. Rarely Romantic With Men
Sometimes even though they are aware that they have a sexual orientation as a lesbian, not a few lesbian women cover it up by dating other men. But even so, her attitude towards men definitely can not be hidden. Even though they are dating, lesbian women will never even do romantic things with their male partners, and even tend to be ignorant and indifferent.
14. Join Same-Sex Like Communities
If you see your female friends starting to search diligently about same-sex enthusiasts and even joining these communities, then you need to be wary of them. Lesbian women will tend to join such communities to get women who also have the same sexual orientation as them.
15. Often invites to watch porn
Very rarely do women like pornographic films, so it will feel strange if your female friends like porn and the like. Especially if he has the courage to invite you to watch it and it's just the two of you, be careful because this could be a trap to lure you into being able to "practice" together.
Lesbian women will indeed be harder to detect than gay people (men who like the same sex). However, if the above characteristics are clearly visible in your friend, then of course you have to be aware of it. You are trying to carefully discuss his real sexual orientation. If indeed the conversation is not going well, it would be better to just accept it or stay away from it if you are afraid of being influenced by it. Hopefully the above information can be useful for you.